tzor wrote:Zherog wrote:Mind if I probe into this a bit, Tzor? In your opinion, when is it OK to have an abortion? I recall you mentioning rape in the past, and also - I believe - incest. Am I remembering correctly? I also recall you tossing out "health of the mother" in the past. Is my memory good there? My hunch is we're all in agreement here, and that these are viable reasons.
OK, so... does "health of the mother" include Frank's scenario? Putting Frank's scenario in more generic terms: if it can be medically proven that the fetus is already dead, is it - in your opinion - OK to abort, even if the pregnancy is well into the 3rd trimester? My hunch here is that we're again in agreement.
What if the parents (mother and father) have been educated on the side-effects of abortion and alternatives such as adoption, but still make the choice that abortion is right for them? This is, I think, where we're going to digress. But I'd like to verify that.
First of all, if it can be proven that the fetus is already dead, then there is no moral dimension to the question whatsoever. It becomes a technical question of which procedure is the least harmful to the woman. If it can be proven that the fetus is brain dead, the same argument could be applied as well. This is the exception, not the norm.
I'll skip your last statement, because I'm not well-versed enough in the statistics to know if it's accurate, and I lack the time and energy necessary to delve into it via Google. The bottom line is that in this scenario you're OK with terminating a pregnancy, even if it technically causes the death of the fetus.
Rape and incest are special cases, but they are special cases because of the psychological trauma involved (like any abortionist actually cares … but I digress).
Don't digress, you only end up painting a whole class of people with broad brush strokes when you do.
I am not convinced that the first thing such a traumatized person needs is a highly invasive medical procedure.
While I get the point you're trying to make, I'll counter with what I said earlier in this thread: it's not your decision, it's the woman's. She's the one who has to carry the baby, not you. She's the one who has to be reminded of the violence against her with every check up at the ob-gyn, not you. She's the one who has to suffer morning sickness as a result of the parasite living in her uterus, not you. If her decision is to terminate the pregnancy, I'm totally down with her making that decision - because it's hers to make.
It also goes right to the argument that no one should [not] be punished for the crimes of their parents. Just because your biological father raped your biological mother is no reason you should be sentenced to death without appeal. I would be more willing to accept these conditions as long as there is reasonable effort made to come up with better alternatives.
(I'm pretty sure you intended the word "not" to appear there. If not, let me know and I'll remove my edit from your quote.

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I think it's probably fair to say that every woman knows there's three basic options:
1) Keep the baby
2) Give birth and give the baby up for adoption
3) Abort the pregnancy
Even with the three basic options, I think it's reasonable for a counselor working with the rape victim to bring up all three choices. But again, you or I don't get to decide what she chooses. Because we have penises rather than vaginas, we'll never know (thankfully) what the situation is like. We have no way of knowing the stress, the hate, the shame, and whatever other factors weigh on an individual.
The “health of the mother” is an easily abusable term. You need to have serious and significant repercussions to the woman’s health, stretch marks, for example, just won’t cut it, and more importantly, there can be no other viable alternative that could save the life of the preborn. If both a c-section and a partial-birth-abortion procedure are both viable, the choice is a no-brainer.
I think any doctor who attempts to argue that stretch marks are a serious threat to the mother's life should have his/her license revoked and his/her head shoved up his/her asshole. That's a ludicrous statement. We've also already set aside cases where the fetus is dead. So that's a non-issue.
Now, my personal viewpoint is that if the choice is "C-Section or abort" I'd want the woman to choose C-section. But I'll say it again: in my opinion, it's
not my choice to make. It's the mother's.
If the parents (particularly the woman) is educated about all aspects of the pre-born, the procedure and all alternatives and after careful consideration (not being pushed to make a rash decision) chooses abortion; that is still a moral wrong. All things considered, given the nature of reality and the real world, that is a scenario that is far better than what we have today in New York.
So, in the end, what you really favor is better education. I can get behind that. Give the patient the facts and let her decide is a grand plan. Unfortunately, it's not the plan of most pro-life folks, who seek to remove abortion as a legal option.
You can't fix stupid.
"A life is not important except in the impact it has on other lives." ~ Jackie Robinson